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What's my problem? x_x;
Topic Started: Apr 10 2006, 10:04 AM (208 Views)
Stoopid Lileh ♪
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teh smartestest admeen fo rwo lol
I find I can't really help in arguments, much. I just seem to cause more problems, actually, most of the time. I don't know how to make things better for anyone.

I, as an admin, am very sorry about what happened. While I probably would have let that picture slide, I don't see how it caused all that. And I'm sorry all of that happened, because I'm friends with both sides of the argument: Squall and Silver's side, and Mia and Ed's side.

So, I choose not to take sides in an argument. But, then bad things happen. Is it right to not take sides, or is it right to just stick to one side? I don't really know. It's so confusing.

Am I a coward? What am I, really? I just don't know anymore.

That is to say, my real life's falling apart too.

I used to be a really good student, but now I'm struggling in school. I have like......three or so C-grades, two of which are low C's, I have hardly any friends, I can't really help out anyone, and I've been feeling sad, sad as a result of all of this combined,

I hate seeing my friends fight, and I hate not being able to prevent it. But what am I? Am I even a good person? The good people get the good grades....

And, without good grades, I'm treated terribly. My parents give me no respect, and yell constantly, calling me stupid and the like. No one here's really so nice.

And it sucks. D:

......If you read this, I congratulate you. o.o
lol @ Satoshige, until I r gets betr joekz.

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Squishy
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Yeah, I had done the same thing. I just stood by, not really participating in it. Usually if you choose sides in an argument, you end up hurting one of your friends. Which is why I chose not to partake in the incident yesterday. So, I usually really don't deal with the bannings, except I was forced to take action with the LRH and Magaman incident, along with Lily, too. But, I usually really don't like to deal with bannings, because I don't really choose things well enough, and I just like to deal with forum/technical problems.
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Mia Takahashi
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Lily hang in there admins are useful for different things, you are good with things in the admin cp and helped out a lot with it.

Yeah don't worry about that, do not take a side, this thing is too hurtful..I don't want another person worrying or getting involved. I know it is hard.. but these were my struggles with being an admin and a friend..


You are a good person, good people don't always get good grades trust me. It must feel horrible to be treated like that. Your a good friend to me and you always were ever since I joined my first hm rp during my noob days.

Aw.. :( I feel like such a dumb jerk.. Please cheer up I can't stand seeing people this sad! :)
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Squishy
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Yeah Lily, you're a good person overall. =D We like you for who you are, not how smart you are. :)
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{C7} Stormsworder
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Good people don't always get good grades. Good people mess up sometimes. Just look at me. I couldn't even land in the top ten at Nationals for academics, and I'm still a good kid.

Try to not let life get you down so bad. Things will get better. Just have faith in it. "Who knows what could happen? Do what you do, just keep on laughing. One thing's true: there's always a brand new day."

I can tell you're a pretty cool person, Lily. Don't let what happens in your life get you down. You have your friends here that you can always count on to support you. Never forget that.
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1 Timothy 4:12 -- "Don't let anyone think less of you because you are young."
James 1:19 -- "Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry."
Romans 12:19 -- "Dear friends, never avenge yourselves. Leave that to God. For it is written, 'I will take vengeance; I will repay those who deserve it,' says the Lord."
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Stoopid Lileh ♪
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I'm not getting in Nationals for academics......x_x
lol @ Satoshige, until I r gets betr joekz.

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Hey Lily, I don't know many people here at all. Some hate me, others don't, others could care less, and others don't know me, but who cares, I continue to live my life for what I feel is right. Lily, you seem to be a really good person. Not picking sides is a really cool and even brave thing to do. I'm not really good with people, but I will say you've gained my friendship. :)
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Just keep this in mind... No one is perfect...

I could go into more detail and address everything there, but me in school so no time. :P
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Mia Takahashi
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Apr 10 2006, 11:46 AM
Just keep this in mind... No one is perfect...

I could go into more detail and address everything there, but me in school so no time. :P

Yep, even I'm not perfect. *remembers 50 on a homework assignment for missing 4 problems in Alg II class* :| That wasn't good. *shudders* Then there was me failing that pop-quiz when he got mad at us <.< Then there is my admining interfering with friendships which totally sucks for me. Well we are all human, and we make mistakes.
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No one's perfect Lily, neutrality is a totally legit decsion! You don't need to get involved with something if you don't want to.

And grades? Just stay over 2.5 (3.0 if you can aim for it) My grades aren't that great, but things are looking up for me anyways. Wanna know what I got for pre-calculus on my second marking period? An 8. Seriously :O

Plus, I'm pretty sure you have some really great talents. Look at RoW's banner at the top of the page....it's pwnsome. o.o
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While I rarely remain neutral in an argument, if you can't choose a side that seems to be right to you and you think that interfering would only hurt, then neutrality is probably the sensible choice. Don't feel bad about it. You are NOT a coward for remaining neutral in an argument where you would probably hurt yourself either way.

Good people don't necessarily get good grades. If you have a bad teacher, have trouble understanding the subject, or have things that make it difficult for you to put your full attention on school, it's fairly natural to get a mediocre-to-bad grade.

And I still think that your parents are somewhat abusive... Don't let them make you sad.
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Stoopid Lileh ♪
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Thanks, everyone. >.>

And there's not much I can do about the Parent thing, though. x_x

It's really my whole community. I'm treated like crap everywhere around here. ;_;
lol @ Satoshige, until I r gets betr joekz.

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Don't feel bad Lily. ^_^ I din't choose a side in the argument either. It was stupied and I had problems with both sides of the argument. ANd good people don't always get good grades. I'm getting a C in art this year. That's my lowest grade... but still. My point it good people come in all smarts, looks, and other things. No one is perfect... so cheer up. ^_^ ANd about your parents.. what do thy know? They aren't you, and nothing they say can change that or who you are. ^^
I still love you, AngelEyes
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Waluigi the Underdog
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Well, now I feel bad for you. My parents aren't so borderline abusive, but they do have high expectations of me, since I have a relatively high IQ.......

Being neutral is probably for the best, since you have friends on both sides. I suppose it was easier for me to pick sides because my set of friends was more one-sided. I can't say I'd expect you to side against people you're friends with.

I wouldn't say you're a bad person for getting bad grades, for the same reasons Secret said. Also, I have some semi-bad grades in two classes. Does it mean I'm a bad person, or not smart? No. I'm just very bad with long term assignments.

I can understand why you might be feeling depressed though. Even if I justify bad grades, I still feel crappy about them.

But if I keep ranting, it might just counteract the purpose of this post. I'm sorry you feel so bad Lily. ;-;
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Three things:
1st: If you have frineds on both sides and feel strongly about one side of the issue, back them up if you want to, but don't insult them. Also, make sure you have decent logical support reasons fro why you are doing so.
2nd: If you can't make up your mind either way or don't feel strongly about an issue, stay neutral.
3rd: There are some bullheaded arrogant people out there who think they are correct all of the time. If they start getting testy, back off for a bit before continuing the argument. If they go straight towards insulting your side of the argument or the people on it, they are probably just an arrogant jerk not worhy of your friendshep for a while, and it's their loss.
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