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| Topic Started: Mar 16 2009, 11:15 PM (102 Views) | |
| PteDarren | Mar 16 2009, 11:15 PM Post #1 |
 
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Why Do We Shout? One day, a professor asked his students ‘Why do we SHOUT instead of speak when we are ANGRY?‘ All the students thought for a while. One answered ‘Because we lost our cool. That’s why we SHOUT.‘ Asked the professor again, ‘But the person is just right next to you, why can’t we talk softly but have to SHOUT?‘ Everyone gave their opinions but none was accepted by the professor. Lastly explained by the professor ‘When we are ANGRY, our hearts drift apart. To mask the DISTANCE we felt, we instinctively SHOUT instead of speak so the other party can hear us.‘ ‘But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we felt we drift apart further. So we SHOUT even louder…‘ ‘It is the opposite when we are in love. Not only we do not shout, we whisper into each other ears. Why?‘ ‘This is because our hearts are very close, almost never apart. As our love deepen, we reach a state of communication where there is no need for words.‘ ‘We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look,‘ concluded the professor. ‘Therefore, when we are arguing, DO NOT speak words that will make our hearts drift apart. WAIT a few days. When you feel your hearts are no longer far apart, pick up the conversation and continue from there. So... what do you guys think? PS: i copy and pasted it from the playpark forums, just felt like sharing |
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| clementsls | Mar 17 2009, 10:42 AM Post #2 |
 
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for ur info.. wo julian told us about tis after one of our christmas performance at the 'open air theater'... then, we had a very lousy performance, quite disappointing one.. so he motivated us.. n told us bout tis.. i think sum senior band members do remember... |
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r u sure or r u confidence 2 say now tat, BB is the best? pls never judge on wad u c.. watch on the process 1st, den the result..  
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| PteDarren | Mar 17 2009, 01:20 PM Post #3 |
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really! when was that? |
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| ptewee | Mar 17 2009, 01:22 PM Post #4 |
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that was eons ago, when i was still holding the sax |
   
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| clementsls | Mar 17 2009, 08:27 PM Post #5 |
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when i was holding trombone... >.< i remember we did the most lousy performance tat year ther... >"< |
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r u sure or r u confidence 2 say now tat, BB is the best? pls never judge on wad u c.. watch on the process 1st, den the result..
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| ptewee | Mar 17 2009, 09:16 PM Post #6 |
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...and combine with the other kuching company... which one liao har? |
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| Sylvester90 | Mar 17 2009, 11:10 PM Post #7 |
 
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4th kch~~ when im holding the mace~~` |
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| clementsls | Mar 18 2009, 01:23 PM Post #8 |
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haha... yaya.. quite an memorable performance, ya? syl.. lol... but after tat we had another performance quite gud de.. >.< |
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r u sure or r u confidence 2 say now tat, BB is the best? pls never judge on wad u c.. watch on the process 1st, den the result..
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| Sylvester90 | Mar 19 2009, 12:30 AM Post #9 |
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ya~~ clsing ceremony~~ |
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| nigelsim | Mar 20 2009, 10:29 AM Post #10 |
 
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i was not der? jungle bells rite? |
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