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Maturity & Bullying
Topic Started: Nov 29 2007, 05:07 PM (249 Views)
gamergoo
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Well, this subject has risen from a plethora of people being annoyed at a certain member, and a same number defending him...

I have no wish to mention names, and I have no need to cause more of this, this thread is to be a neutral zone.

I am wondering to those who are bashing, why are you bashing (or flaming as it may be). and what do you intend to gain?

I am also wondering to those who are defending, why are you defending? (get off a moral high horse and come down to earth)

Every person defending him has said things like: I urge you all to consider not being jerks, why don't you just ignore the 'annoying' things he does, it's an extremely sad truth, but nearly every forum has to have a target, yet he doesn't deserve it. (paraphrased)


I will agree I was acting like a jerk, but to level with you, we are all jerks, it just depends on how much of a jerk we are..

For those who will state that they are not a jerk.. you make damn sure to go through all of your memories and think about if you ever did anything jerkish, as in Judging people, calling somebody a name, wishing to hurt somebody, or hating somebody, for any reason.

I am not defending or bashing each-others side. I am trying to figure out why people think its okay to defend somebody and mark another as a bully or jerk, when pretty much everyone has the urge to say something like that to somebody.

-I will keep myself in check, I do not intend to ever speak to that individual again.

- I have tried to ignore that individual for the past year almost... it does not work. Don't suggest tolerance of each-other, humans can only tolerate so much.

For an answer to my own topic: I wanted he member to leave, plain and simple, if too much of a good thing is bad, whats too much of a bad thing?

(I don't expect anything from this thread, but I was hoping for some sort of feedback. So the experience wasn't all for nothing.)
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Mily
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Well I was defending Samiel because someone called him a target, and just from what I saw, like, I couldn't stand it because when I was younger, I was a target, I was picked on for just about anything, if I said something a teensy bit wrong or accidentily said something stupid, I got ridiculed for it, the friends I had obviously were not my friends, they just kinda tolerated me, and let me hang around with them, I can't stand bullying, and belittling so, I had to say something,
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Samiel
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I thank you for doing so and Im sorry you had to go through such things as have I gone through things similar if not the same to you in my life. :wave:
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Gafgar Adolis
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I'm an Evil Clown apprentice. I HAVE to flame people.
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Kichuwa
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I wouldn't target, though I'm a person to do such a thing I won't Im not a Super dick infact only I think Im a jerk... that I know, and as interbutt annoyance goes, I've seen worse.

I mean IRL people say I look like at some point I'm going to snap and Become An Hero, or be a serial killer. Most of these views are based on my looks, I was told to Kill myself twice today. which people I know are douchecuntfagassrammers all proves not everyone is mature.
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frodowise
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"get off a moral high horse and come to earth" eh? Just because someone else chooses to stoop low doesn't mean I need to join them. My beliefs go against any real bullying (real bullying doesn't involve making fun of someone and everyone (including the target) having a good laugh about it, for example) because we are all equal. Makes you look kinda stupid to pick at someone else's faults then have someone turn around at you and point out your own.
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Alucard
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for anybody who's wondering about what they're talking about with some of these titles, here it is

Mily,Nov 29 2007
07:23 PM
Well I was defending Samiel because someone called him a target

Gafgar Adolis,Nov 29 2007
08:12 PM
I'm an Evil Clown apprentice. I HAVE to flame people.

Right now, Mily is discribing Me-toos, in the sense of cruelty being cool
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Samiel
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Wow, Im learning things about some members that are similar to myself. This is great. ^_^
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