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Virginity
Topic Started: Apr 14 2008, 09:11 PM (697 Views)
Mero
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Kay this isn't a topic asking if you are a virgin.
It's a discussion as to how long you think someone should wait before they have sex with someone.

My opinion is that you should wait until you know the person really well and have been dating them long enough to trust them with your life. Only then will you know that they will not abandon you if anything unforeseen may happen.

Personally, and I don't care if anyone knows, I'm a virgin and I'm proud. I'm very unimpressed with the 12 year old un-virgins. Sometimes they make me envious but at the same time I feel bad for them and I'm happy I'm still a virgin. it's sort of strange.

Your opinions?
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I think that a person should have sex only when they truly and deeply care about their partner.

Unless the can only get off with strangers, then I guess they're the exception.


Seriously though, I don't think sex should ever be a top priority on anybodies to do list. It just has to happen when the time is right. Having an overbearing urge to bone someone is really disrespectful, if you ask me.
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Zaroff,Apr 14 2008
07:30 PM
I think that a person should have sex only when they truly and deeply care about their partner.

Unless the can only get off with strangers, then I guess they're the exception.


Seriously though, I don't think sex should ever be a top priority on anybodies to do list. It just has to happen when the time is right. Having an overbearing urge to bone someone is really disrespectful, if you ask me.

oddly enough i agree Zaroff.


thats why they say it has to be the right moment with the right person. Just doing it with someone just for pleasure or just because you can is not the right way to go.

It may be fun the first couple of times to just fool around but in the end you'll be kicking yourself in the rear. At least until you find that special someone that will make you forget all the things you've done in the past.


So in essense just dont do it until you feel 100% right with the person. Also its always a good thing to have a lengthy relationship before going the extra step.
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Well, depends on what you think of sex, an act of love or lust.

People who stick to their morals will say that they'll wait until that special somebody. Teens these days are in a rush when it comes to relationships, y'know? Making all the wrong decisions and getting pregnant. It's come to the point where I don't care whether middle schoolers are having sex. But the topic of pregnancy is a different thing. Girls, take the pill or make your partner wear a glove, plox.

I have a friend who's screwed every boyfriend she had since sophomore year in only a matter of a few months. How was I like when she told me she wasn't a virgin anymore, I was somewhat shocked, cos y'know, if the two of you are feeling that urge to aughuhuhu, then why not? I think about sex a lot, since I'm a very horny faggot inside, but in a relationship, it's not my top priority.

So in short, as long as it's safe sex, lolk.
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Virginity only matters if someone puts a significance behind it. Personally, I've never really cared about when it would end and what not. I'm very nonchalant about the whole thing, because in essence, the whole intercourse thing is a terribly ugly mess, no? I have never been able to even think of the act of "making love" possible as love is a beautiful thing. Genitals, aren't.

On the whole time topic, whenever it happens, it happens. I know people that are just all about getting their rocks off with little regard as to who it's with as long as they're "hot" or whatever, as well as people who will wait X amount of time they think would be right with a person they truly trust, love and all those other neat fun things.

It all just depends on the person, in summary, I guess. If people really need to bang around, do one of three things, 1. Get more self-esteem, 2. Become the best lover of yourself you can be, or 3. Kill yourself for being such a using a hole, thx verry much.
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I think it should be whenever both sides of the people involved are ready.

If the person wants to wait until that "special someone" and the 'right moment', then that's when they are ready, and they will search or wait for that moment.

Others however, may not actually love each other to have sex. Some people they just look/ask, or whatever at each other and that night, they get it on. Both people know it, and they are both are ready for it. I don't see any reason to need love for sex for those people if they both want it.

When one goes for the a party and gets drunk or whatever, they run the risk of ending up with in a bed with another person and having sex. Granted, one of them may not have intended to have sex, or the woman gets pregnant, but when one puts themselves out like that, they're risking it. Although not all people who go to a party want sex, but that's where the own person's control comes in. But, alas not all people prepare for this way, and thus, they are not ready, which is why they get pregnant.

Hey, I'm a virgin myself, and I probably stay as one until I truly care for my partner, as Zaroff has said.

If my roommate and some girl wants to do it, let them do it, they know what they're doing, and they know what could result, whether they want it or not.
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Yeah I agree with alot of your statements. I'm just really sick of seeing alot of the 12 year old girls slutting themselves out. It's not cool. I mean, their generation might see it as cool but the older generation thinks its ridiculous.(i'm not THAT old but I still think its ridiculous.) I don't think it should be top priority either.

To be frank, I'm insanely scared of losing my virginity. Numerous reasons why... Such as it hurting like hell, being used for it, and it not being special. Plus theres alwys the chacne of pregnancy that scares a lot of girls too. Mostly though it's because It'll hurt a lot, or so i've heard.

I really agree with your opinions.
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merokoyui,Apr 15 2008
05:21 PM


To be frank, I'm insanely scared of losing my virginity. Numerous reasons why... Such as it hurting like hell....

By what I've heard from the numerous female sources around me, only the first initial push through the hymen does it hurt, but that's only what I've heard.
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Rark,Apr 15 2008
11:07 PM
merokoyui,Apr 15 2008
05:21 PM


To be frank, I'm insanely scared of losing my virginity. Numerous reasons why... Such as it hurting like hell....

By what I've heard from the numerous female sources around me, only the first initial push through the hymen does it hurt, but that's only what I've heard.

I've heard both. Several said it was definitely most uncomfortable the first time.

I suppose with all things it varies from person to person.

In terms of the topic, I'm sort of split. My memories of losing my virginity aren't particular good ones, but then sex with someone you care about can be really good.

So I'd probably say wait until you find someone worth losing your virginity to. This way the experience will probably be a whole lot better than if you just jump at the first opportunity that comes along, for many reasons; improved emotional satisfaction, more likely to take is steady and be supportive etc, and you'll not end up with lots of regrets or risk losing your sexual confidence.

However I don't see virginity as this great mark of purity or frigidity, and I don't see it as something to be ashamed of or proud of. I see loosing your virginity as simply an instant in time, something that isn't really that important in the grand scheme of things.

That said, I've always been more of a pragmatic than a romantic when it comes to things like this.
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merokoyui,Apr 15 2008
12:21 PM
To be frank, I'm insanely scared of losing my virginity. Numerous reasons why... Such as it hurting like hell, being used for it, and it not being special. Plus theres alwys the chacne of pregnancy that scares a lot of girls too. Mostly though it's because It'll hurt a lot, or so i've heard.

Yeah, I agree here, too.
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I'll tell you this, Men can't lose virginity, because they don't lose anything after doing it the first time. It's not like a piece of their head falls off or they start bleeding.
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UnNegi-relatedname,Apr 15 2008
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I'll tell you this, Men can't lose virginity, because they don't lose anything after doing it the first time. It's not like a piece of their head falls off or they start bleeding.

uh yeah, they lose the mystical spell component in them that would have allowed them to be used for spells requiring virgin sacrifices.
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UnNegi-relatedname,Apr 16 2008
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I'll tell you this, Men can't lose virginity, because they don't lose anything after doing it the first time. It's not like a piece of their head falls off or they start bleeding.

wat


Moving on.

Losing you virginity is a lot more psychological for men than women, obviously. I don't think I need to say why this is either. But I do agree with the sentiments of losing your virginity to someone you trust, but life isn't always like that I'm afraid.
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Well I can say, that even though it won't hurt me when I do it, the whole act of losing my virginity does cause me a considerable amount of fear. But that might be because I'm afraid to kiss girls, let alone trust one of them enough to let them be my first . I don't know.
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Sir Meh,Apr 15 2008
07:24 PM
wat


Moving on.

Losing you virginity is a lot more psychological for men than women, obviously. I don't think I need to say why this is either. But I do agree with the sentiments of losing your virginity to someone you trust, but life isn't always like that I'm afraid.

I think it's the opposite way. Girls are the ones who dream of it being romantic and with the special someone. And it hurts for them. For guys, they just think of it as boning someone.
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