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Virginity
Topic Started: Apr 14 2008, 09:11 PM (698 Views)
EnKaYoot
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Losing your virginity isn't something that you have to sit down and think about. It has to happen on the spur of the moment, if you plan for it, then something goes wrong, you're crushed and you lose your trust in your future partners. Planning leads to problems when it comes to sex, just let it happen, y'know?
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aigu92,Apr 15 2008
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I think it's the opposite way. Girls are the ones who dream of it being romantic and with the special someone. And it hurts for them. For guys, they just think of it as boning someone.

What about the guys like me, who are sensitive! :rose: <== Sensitive emoticon
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It depends on the girl on how much it hurts when first penetrated. Your hymen can break before sex with sports and other things. It could bleed for a few hours to possibly a day or two. It's really hard to feel that special magic when you're in pain. Guys, just don't jam it right away in if you don't want your girl to possibly end up crying and bleeding all over your dong.
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jiz,Apr 16 2008
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Guys, just don't jam it right away in if you don't want your girl to possibly end up crying and bleeding all over your dong.

Oh, but Jiz, you make it sound just so appetizing. That, however, is a bit of a frightful/turn off to the whole thing, no?

On the subject however, there is actually hymen reconstruction surgery. It's done as a practice to essentially save girls lives who would be killed if that blood didn't flow due to virginity being a must for religious reasons in marriage.
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She's not really turning anyone off to the idea of sex, she's just saying that if the girl is a virgin, there is the possibility of it happening. It's natural, just like the feelings you have for the partner (should be) are natural.
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EnKaYoot,Apr 15 2008
09:52 PM
He's not really turning anyone off to the idea of sex, he's just saying that if the girl is a virgin, there is the possibility of it happening. It's natural, just like the feelings you have for the partner (should be) are natural.

Or rather she is a woman.

Which she is by the way.

EnKaYoot
 
  Losing your virginity isn't something that you have to sit down and think about. It has to happen on the spur of the moment, if you plan for it, then something goes wrong, you're crushed and you lose your trust in your future partners. Planning leads to problems when it comes to sex, just let it happen, y'know?


And no, realistically, you should talk it out, and plan it out before engaging in such. What you're thinking of are those movie scenes. Or those hentanime, where there's sex behind every door.

Oh sure, you can do it spur of the moment. But for me, I'd talk about it, because I don't want to be another statistic of those stupid teens who contract STDs from such activities.

Or are you just bitching about your past? =w=
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well geez thx for warning me about the whole "Jiz is a girl" thing, post edited. and no i'm not bringing up my past, that's just my belief, my idea is that you would at least know if they have STD's or not, that's a no brainer, but i mean, if you're planning one day, and the next day you break up cuz she's uncomfortable about it, that's going to hurt a lot more than getting there, and then her stopping you, then it's understandable at that point.
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Personally if I suddenly came up to my female partner (assuming I have one) and she had yet to lose her virginity and I was just like "HEY LETS DO THIS THING" I'm willing to bet she would be like, "No, I'm not ready" then I would feel awkward. And even if she did say yes there are to possibilities, she's saying yes because she does want to or she's saying yes because she feels she has to do it because I love her or its the cool thing to do or something.
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Where there's a grey area on how much you should plan, as it's not like a vacation or anything (maybe for the guy).

But I mean you should know when to start planning for it. Let the relationship develop for a while (no that doesn't mean a week), and ask her about it.

And just personal experience from me, If it really has been A WHILE since you've started dating, and she still feels uncomfortable about it. Break up with her immediately. Or if you're those pansies (like I was), I'd suggest being ready for a breakup soon.


And also, just cautionary measures, I mean no offense to you when I referred the bitching about the past.
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Well, you wouldn't ask her up front, you would get in the mood for it (through kissing for ex.) then ask her, if she says yes, make sure to ask if she's 100% positive, and not just doing it because she feels she has to. It's not like you're just whipping it out and sticking it in, cuz that's just dumb...
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oh, whipping it out and sticking it in is what happens in all those h-doujins.

The girl gives consent half-way through.

And we're straying from the main point here. We're talking about virginity.
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To Answer the question, anything younger than 15 is too young to lose their virginity.
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not necessarily.

But usually yes. The only motive from those whores are just to appeal to their whore friends.
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They like the attention.

It's a bit sad though when they get pregnant. When I was a freshmen, there was this sophomore chick that was pregnant. She had to give the baby up for adoption because her parents didn't approve of it and her boyfriend walked out on her. She was really upset about having to give him up, it was pretty depressing ;(
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I can imagine, planned or not, it's still your child. Very hard to give up the "fruits of your labor" to someone else.
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