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| Ellen Nelle | Apr 2 2005, 05:29 PM Post #1 |
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If youve read my livejournal then you prolly know everything but... ok I have this boyfriend. Weve been together for over a year and things have been good and bad. Well his best friend broke up with his girlfriend. The girldfriend is now making moves on him. Thats why Im mad.I dont know how to deal with that. Weve been together too long to brake up over something like that. If he starts cheating on me then Im dropping him like a dirty shoe but how do I get her to stop. Keep in mind I am very friendly and hide my feelings very well. I never talk to anyone about this stuff. I talk to peoplel who have nothing to do with the situation and my lj. What do you guys suggest I do about her. I do not like her and Im too nice to be mean. I cant control him and make him stop talking to her, and I havent told him that it makes me mad. If I did him and her would be like'We dont like each other.Youre stupid' my boyfriend would be nicer about it but she would be a butt. She would say I was stupid and paranoid and tell him to brake up with me. If I tell him he`ll tell her and shell talk about how stupid I am. (Shes done this before and I tried talking to him and thats what happened.) Any suggestions? And why Im sad:I went to a competition in Tenn. (TNT@TNU) Well I have known this guy for a while and never tlaked to him. I`ll just call him Trey. Well Trey likes me. He says Im hot and such a nice girl and stuff like that. Well his friend K was telling me all this after he told her and she was like'He likes you because you look like his recent ex' Well does he like me because I look like his ex or does he like me for me? Its really confusing but him and K are REALLY REALLY good friends. Like so good that Id have the same problem Im having with my current boyfriend.Also Trey lives near the border of the state and I live in the dead center. I would only see him at church stuff and my mom wont let me go to a lot of the district stuff. I like him,but I dont wanna get hurt. Also I cant just break up with Dakota now. Thats why Im miserable... Im miserable because weve been together too long to break up. My mom would literally ground me. (NOT JOKING AT ALL) His parents would think all Christians are hipocrits. Weve been taking him to church because his parents dont go and were starting to get them to go. So if we broke up they wouldnt want him to have any part with me. Then I would lose a friend. I mean I really care about him but I can t be miserable like this. What do you guys suggest I do. Not nesccessarily to break up with him, but what would you do to get happy because lately Ive been pretty sad. Please help. I know this is long but it complicated. You can post here or PM. thanks for the comments. ~Ellen [size=1]Edited to remove netspeak[/size] |
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| bookworm92 | Apr 2 2005, 05:59 PM Post #2 |
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check your pms, Ellen ;) |
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| Samantha_Malfoy | Apr 2 2005, 06:03 PM Post #3 |
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Well, I recently got out of a serious relationship we'd been going out for just under a year, and all my friends were flirting with him, and I wasn't comfortable.He was flirting back, with one of them.And I wasn't happy with him, it may sound selfish, but I broke up with him because I wasn't happy. You sound like me, you always put other people before yourself, so for once, think about what your happy with. Do you like this guy Trey, or do you still like Dakota?If you still like him, fight for him. Think about yourself on this one. I know how it feels to want everyone else to be happy, but us, the people who put all others before us, deserve to be happy as well....This may sound really corny, but.....Just look inside yourself, and you'll find the answer's. |
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| Ellen Nelle | Apr 2 2005, 06:09 PM Post #4 |
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I kinda like Trey. I thin kgoing on this trip was like a runaway. I mean...Ive always run away so now I dont know what to do with myself. I kinda like Trey. I think its more Im too immature to not like Trey.(lol.)I know that sounds weird but Im at that age where everything thats male and breaths is hott. I still really care about Dakota but like you said I cant be miserable. the trip was good for me. I havent been that happy in weeks but now its all real to me again. I have to return to reality. Im going to TRY to talkto Dakota. Im also going to get Treys e-mail address and try to get to know him better. thanks for the adice. anymore |
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| bookworm92 | Apr 2 2005, 06:10 PM Post #5 |
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LOL well anyway good luck with that! :lol: |
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| Qman | Apr 2 2005, 09:44 PM Post #6 |
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If you are mad at that girl, then try talking to her through instant messaging. I find that easier because you are not talking directly to them. |
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| Ellen Nelle | Apr 4 2005, 11:47 AM Post #7 |
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Yeah. I talked to Dakota through IM and it was a lot easier. We worked it out and he said he was sorry and didnt know why he put her ahead of me. I just need to talk to her now. Im trying to find the patience to not get mad and bite her head off.(lol) |
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