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| SlytheringForsakenScAry | Aug 9 2005, 06:41 AM Post #1 |
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:unsure: Ok, hi everyone... I'm not sure how many of you have really noticed me or anything because I'm so new and all, but I really need some advice on something... My ex is coming into town(mind you he messed me up really bad-Emotionally but yet I decided to go along being friends after our realtionship ended). I haven't seen him in our a year or so... I'm fine being friends with him, but I am really freaked about seeing him. When we are together our personalities sort of click together, you know? And then it's hard to control stuff from there on... What should I do? Should I hang out with besides that fact that I could get pulled into that stuff again or should I completely avoid him and miss the chance to see the one person that understands me completely? I am sooo confused... What should I do? If you have any thoughts on this, PM me or post on here... Thank you. :unsure: |
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| Searsha | Aug 9 2005, 09:41 AM Post #2 |
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I have been there..the exact same thing...I think staying friends right now is the best thing...and see what happens when you meet up..but you both need to have a heart to heart talk about the relationship..and that the fact that he really hurt you emotionally..he has to be aware of that....and if things start to get back to a relationship he has to know that he has got to be there 100 percent or its nothing...you have to look out for yourself..and try not to get caught up in the moment..take it step by step..ok? I know how you feel I have been there..and its hard but you dont want to go through all that again do you? thus for the serious talk...I hope this helped any..I'm always around and Im in the same house..so if you need me I'm there for ya. |
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| SlytheringForsakenScAry | Aug 9 2005, 10:50 AM Post #3 |
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Thank you so much Searsha. That actually helped me out a lot. It's really been stressing me out(badly enough I couldn't sleep at all last night or eat this morning) and I feel a lot better now. I appreciate the advice. Thank you again! :twins: |
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| Searsha | Aug 9 2005, 11:00 AM Post #4 |
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"hey Im so glad I could help..like I said been through all that already and so I know what you are going through..it was like a rollercoaster relationship lots of ups and mostly downs..I couldn't deal with it....too hard...as it stands...I haven't heard from him in like 2 weeks and we are just friends..so he still hasn't learned...but I'm all the better for it..because I chose to have it as friends and so it doesn't hurt as much now... but at least you can breath and rest easier and if it gets to hurting again...yell for me I'll come running to help....ok? we slytherins have to stick together you know. ;) |
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