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Guys are evil!; not really, but some act like it
Topic Started: Aug 17 2005, 03:09 PM (64 Views)
Samantha_Malfoy
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The last guy i went out with, was so ugly, and his friends thought he was lucky to go out with me,and we went out for a few weeks, then he had my friends call me up and tell me it was over.I said ok, but I was mad at him for not having the courage to do it himself...about a week later a friend of mine called me up and told me "he broke up with you for kristen" kristen was one of my best friends, next to kat(who was the one to listen to me rattle on about hating him), and whatevfer i do, i keep thinking of how i was dumped, and my friend that he went out with planned it, and i can't help but think i wasn't good enough for him,and my mom thinks i should be friend with kristen, the one who planned it out, and who had him dump me so he would go out with her when he didn't even like her, what do i do?
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Dark Mistress
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Oh Sam, let me tell you that this happens all the time with friends, it happened to my daughter last year when she broke up with her boyfriend of 1year. Her best friend invited him over the next day. They fought over it for awhile and but have since become friends again. I know that she doesn't spend as much time with her as she used to but that is for other reasons. Your mom is right, it you to can fix this then do it. Friends at your age are far more important then boyfriends. As far as this boy, I would not be to upset with this break up. He doesn't seem like the right person to be with anyways. He gave you an out that would eventually happen sometime down the road. I know it's frustrating and upsetting about the way everything went down, but be the better person and you will come out on top of this. Have you talked to your girlfriend about how you feel?
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Samantha_Malfoy
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No, she won't talk to me either, she won't call me or anything, i heard that she thinks its my fault he dumped her too.
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Dark Mistress
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Well give it time and see what happens, atleast you tried so the blame is off you. I didnt realize he dumped her to. Well there's always the old saying, "What goes around comes around", now she knows how you felt when it happened to you. Sooner or later she will come around so try and be patient which I know is hard. She'll realize that she lost a good friend.
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Samantha_Malfoy
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thankx spellbook.
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