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| ScrappingMom | Nov 9 2006, 11:04 AM Post #16 |
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I feel the same way. Should my 2nd son be happier b/c I'm gaining my experience with ds#1? I've had to deal with alot of issues with him that I'm "learning on the job". He's at the stage (for awhile already) where you can't tell them anymore "b/c I said so". Everything is "how come" or "why" and I have to come up with a valid answer even though as a parent it's very hard. And I don't mean the childish "how come" that a 5 y.o. asks. About the internet, I'm lucky that I'm tech-savvy. However, that doesn't mean our kids aren't. My son mentioned to me one day about a list of sites that his friend had spoken to him about. To say my mouth hit the floor is an understatement. I'm glad he came to me about it and I told him so. It scares me about what's out there...so much more than when I was his age. |
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| chavamom | Nov 9 2006, 01:43 PM Post #17 |
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That's exacty what is going on here. I told him that while I know he listens to this music, I can't "allow" it, which is what he wants me to do. As for having a mashpia, I had to bribe him the first time, but I got him to go talk to a guy that actually had a big influence on me when I was in college (it's someone he normally would not have met in his 'seviva'). He used to work with post high-school boys. They actually had a good talk and my son tells me that he 'understands teen-agers'. This guy has made a point of speaking to my son in shul, and he has talked to him about some of his issues. But getting to the point where he would pickup a phone or go over to speak to him is another madrega. |
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| zuncompany | Nov 9 2006, 02:14 PM Post #18 |
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chava- its hard. I still have a hard time doing it! |
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| madison | Nov 9 2006, 05:57 PM Post #19 |
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He does have a very valid point, the places I've seen Are like that. He sounds like a really good kid, he talks to Rabbi's about these things, talks to you, not going behind your back, there is nothing wrong I dont think with just explaining your kids the reasons why, and at the same time making them feel understood. Look its real life, sometimes disagreements do not get resolved, and it just so happens that your the parent , doing your job raising kids, don't get faint of heart, sounds like youre handling teenhood pretty well. |
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| rikal | Nov 10 2006, 04:27 AM Post #20 |
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Indeed. |
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