Some Issues I've been having

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Some Issues I've been having; need help on some stuff
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NintendoLuke99	May 4 2014, 08:45 PM Post #1
Nintendo 64 Teen Enthusiast Posts: 593 Group: Senior Members Member #1,066 Joined: October 23, 2012	Hey guys,i think its high time that i wrote this.I really need some advice on something. alright..even though i have resolved issues with myself,there is one that i deal with.Even though i am one of the sons of four children,i really feel like a only child most of the time. I mean aton of the attention is focused on my 2 older brothers,who i barely even talk to or hang out with(even though ive tried) anymore since there so busy and just hanging out with their friends.I really don't have anyone to talk to,i mean when its my parents..i always feel uncomfortable talking to about stuff. Alright,the brothers issue. Although i feel close to my twin brother,i don't really feel close to my 2 older brothers and i haven't for quite some time,especially my older brother. I feel so alone sometimes when i am just about to ask for them to hang or something,they are always going somewhere.Its like we are in 2 seperate worlds even though we live in the exact same house. My oldest brother though,when he shutted me out when i was a couple of years younger(while doing some stuff),now he wants to let bygones to bygones,but it hurts me because now hes trying to be my brother when he should've a couple of years ago. My older brother,i don't even feel close to him at all. I really haven't had a good conversation with him in months,and i even tried talking to him tonight,but he just shooed me away.And when he is talking to me,is just telling me to shut up or calling me gay. Also,noone really ever plays the N64 with me,and it would be so nice for my brothers to play it with me,and experience what multiplayer is really like on the Nintendo 64.Thats the problem with him. Also,i always feel unnoticed aton of the time,like i can be gone for a couple of hours and noone would really notice.Like when it was just me and my parents today when my bros were out somewhere,all of the attention was focused on me.Thats one of the things,for years i have always wanted another sibling,a baby in the family,but i known for awhile that will not happen,and its pretty sad,because i don't feel close to the siblings i have.Also,I always feel like in the shadow of my oldest brother,who is a football star and like the good jock of the family,and everyone always expects me to be just like him when i want to be something unique not with just the rest of the crowd, I really don't know what to do to be honest,ik this is alot to take in,but what do u guys think? Edited by NintendoLuke99, May 4 2014, 08:46 PM.
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Nagato	May 4 2014, 09:29 PM Post #2
Senior Member Posts: 504 Group: Senior Members Member #1,192 Joined: January 10, 2013	Not really sure what to say... Most brothers and sisters usually don't get on well so not really sure why you are so upset. Also this might not be the place but I don't know what else to do apart from just coming out and saying it... I don't really want to read all these types of threads when I come to a gaming community page. I see you have made a few threads like this and I don't know how to deal with them. If they are allowed I'd rather you keep it all in one thread as apposed to making multiple threads about stuff like this. I hope I haven't offended you or anyone else but it really bugs me and I thought I should point that out.



NintendoLuke99	May 4 2014, 10:00 PM Post #3
Nintendo 64 Teen Enthusiast Posts: 593 Group: Senior Members Member #1,066 Joined: October 23, 2012	Oh.. I'm sorry...I really didn't mean to do that... Don't worry u didn't offend me... I definetley see we're ur coming from
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Xephyrian	May 4 2014, 10:16 PM Post #4
Master Chief of the Universe Posts: 1,874 Group: Legendary Member #977 Joined: August 28, 2012	Man Luke I'm sorry you're having to deal with all that, and sadly I can kind of relate but on the other end, I can be a jerk to my younger brother and you've helped me see it from his perspective. But if you need someone to talk to feel free to private message me, I'm always willing to listen, you're a cool dude.



stevenrumm	May 10 2014, 04:55 AM Post #5
Established Member Posts: 69 Group: Established Members Member #2,227 Joined: May 10, 2014	had the same problem a few months back (im the middle child) so i just turned up at my mums house with a few beers,takeaway and put the football on both slowly were drawn in by free beer,food and football so slowly got talking then when was over just hung out



stevenrumm	May 13 2014, 01:11 PM Post #6
Established Member Posts: 69 Group: Established Members Member #2,227 Joined: May 10, 2014	if you ever need to talk my Skype is srd_whu , that goes for anyone talk about what so ever


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