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| EssieLou | Jan 23 2009, 10:11 PM Post #16 |
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In the end, the kids suffer. We are dealing with a woman who just gave birth to twins.... Premies... that she didn't want. She smoked, drank and drugged the entire pregnancy. Was talking about aborting them up until they were born. Father is HIV positive. This woman has had like six abortions. When we asked why she hasn't had her tubes tied, the response was "Well, she doesn't have any children!" Someone help me with this logic. What is it about self sacrifice and putting your kids first that is alien to so many folks? |
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| schnuppi | Jan 23 2009, 10:17 PM Post #17 |
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Good grief! I really don't get that! Ok, I don't think that I can top that story but here is one of the cases that makes my head spin with it's incredible logic We have a couple, both soldiers. She wants to get married because she wants to get out of the barracks sooooo bad and he pays her bills. He wants to get married because he's getting kicked out of the Military and doesn't wants to go home because he has no chance of getting a job or providing for himself. That sounds like the right reasons to get married, right? No kids thankfully - yet! |
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| EssieLou | Jan 23 2009, 10:23 PM Post #18 |
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I think the most amazing we see are kids who've had kids that have been taken away (15- 17 year olds) who honestly wanted to get pregnant because..... They can't give a good reason.... it's just what everyone does and birth control? What's that? Anyhow, we get them because they're depressed, upset etc.... because they lost their child (because they were using drugs, neglectful, turning tricks etc). Yet all they talk about is themselves and they don't see how their actions hurt the child.....they want what they want. It's incredibly selfish. |
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| chea | Jan 23 2009, 10:24 PM Post #19 |
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I used to date a guy who is now 27 years old and on his 3rd marriage since turning 21... His child from his last marriage is being raised by his parents ( his ex-wife remarried and had another child, she no longer wanted the little boy) and he only gets him when he wants "to play house". It kills me, I just want to beat him in the head and tell him to grow up.
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| schnuppi | Jan 23 2009, 10:33 PM Post #20 |
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Yep, I have that urge every other day too! |
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| sdmountainkat | Jan 23 2009, 10:45 PM Post #21 |
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Yep, he needs a 2X4 upside the head! But the mother? She's remarried and has another child and doesn't want the little boy anymore?!? WTF?!? You have to believe he is going to be better of without her though ![]() Thank God for his grandparents! |
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| chea | Jan 23 2009, 10:50 PM Post #22 |
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I have no respect for the mother either... she divorced him to marry one of his best friends and then got pregnant and the little boy was no longer a issue to her. But then you have to understand that out of the 3 marriages this "man" has had, two of them have been to 17 year olds, the ex-wife was in what I guess you could call foster care when she got pregnant on purpose so he would marry her so she could get out... He used to tell me alot about how he just couldn't find the "one"... I eventually told him, after you have gone through that many marriages that fast....... maybe it's you and the girls you pick. |
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| EssieLou | Jan 23 2009, 11:56 PM Post #23 |
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I have actually sat in on care plans where parents told kids they didn't want them and wished they never had them. Or parents who drop them off and refuse to come back to get them. I've seen mothers turn their kids over to foster care because "They had a new man and he didn't want to be around another man's kids." Seriously too many of the wrong folks are having kids. |
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| chea | Jan 24 2009, 12:01 AM Post #24 |
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Sometimes I wonder though, if that isn't better than the alternative... A friend of mine was made to eat outside rain or shine by her mother, because her mother remarried a man who didn't want my friend to eat at the table with him or his kids, so her mother did it... My friend said the only good part was that she was to young to understand at the time and thought it was fun that she got to have picnics all the time.... Eventually her mother dropped her off at her aunt and uncles one day... and just didn't come back.. she stayed with her dad until her mother got divorced and wanted her to move back in... |
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| schnuppi | Jan 24 2009, 12:08 AM Post #25 |
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It really makes me sick to hear stuff like that! I just can't believe that parents can do that to their kids But I also wonder sometimes if the kids aren't better off sometimes when they are away from their parents
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Good grief! I really don't get that!

She's remarried and has another child and doesn't want the little boy anymore?!? WTF?!? You have to believe he is going to be better of without her though
But I also wonder sometimes if the kids aren't better off sometimes when they are away from their parents

1:21 PM Jul 11